This Woman Shows Just How Hard Can It Be To Buy Gender-Neutral Kids’ Cards

A woman has shared her struggle of trying to buy a gender-neutral birthday card for a child – as she was faced with few options that weren’t stereotypical “male” or “female”.

Author Kate Long said many of the cards were in pairs – one for a girl, one for a boy – and could directly be compared, which what she called as “boys, predator, girls, prey”. 

“But I took a swift look at the others, specifically the ones tagged ‘boy’ or ‘girl’,” she continued. “The cards were divided on the stand, though, so even if it wasn’t spelt out, a shopper could easily see which set were for whom.”

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And Long noted that even if you’re not sending or receiving these cards, you’re standing in queues in post offices or supermarkets and seeing them – and taking in their message about what kids need to do to be a “boy or girl”.

The mum posted a Twitter thread with many examples of the cards.

Here are just a few:

Although, she noted, there was one in the girls’ section, which was “cool, noisy and active”. 

People on Twitter shared their own examples:

And people could relate to the card shopping challenge.